Benching with my boss

Despite seeming comical this is actually a serious question. I asked my boss last week if I could join him in the gym since I noticed that he frequently leaves early to go and lift. He agreed to lift together, and mentioned that we'd be benching today. My issue is that I can't imagine his bench max being more than around 150 pounds, whereas I typically do sets at over 100 pounds more than that. I'm an intern at the company and he is much more senior than me, so I don't know what to do. Should I just bench whatever he benches and not get a good workout? Or should I bench my weight with him? I am not feeling like there is a very humble way to bench way more than him. I know this shouldn't affect my future at the company, but could it?

 
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Assert dominance and refuse to give him a spot, rep his max, then proceed to yell about who’s going to carry the boats

 
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Do what you normally do. Depending on how senior he is, he will either see if as awesome or if he’s insecure he’ll get self conscious. This is actually a great test for him to see how he is with self confidence.

 

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