Golfing and skiiing are great fun, but are also great for networking and being social. Haven’t got to ski much the past few years, but I’ve been golfing tons, both by myself and with friends depending on if schedules line up.

 

I would second this. For me, these are some of the few things you can do at any age and at any time. You cannot play soccer or football whenever, but you can make a tee time or buy a lift ticket and go with who you want. 

 

Snowboarding, Surfing, Muay Thai, BJJ

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
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Golf, reading books, yoga is great. Especially hot yoga. Also i’ve been getting more into board games like Catan and other strategy ones that you have to think. I make music sometimes but been bad at setting aside time for that. Going to the gym but that’s more of a necessity. I like trying new craft beers and watching 90s foreign movies too. Trying to understand different philosophical concepts and going through rabbit holes on niche intellectual topics on the internet. Get creative with it!

 

Trying to understand different philosophical concepts and going through rabbit holes on niche intellectual topics on the internet

Yeah trying to do the same here. Any suggestions on cool topics that caught your attention?

 

Yea, I love learning about history and my favorite eras are ancient Greek and Roman. It's basically the building blocks for western civilization and culture so the philosophers that came from there are some of my favorites. Pre-socratics, Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Aurelius, Plutarch, etc. Also, went through rabbit holes on the French Revolution and read a book on the history of the silk road which was interesting. I've recently been into the German philosophers but those are harder to understand. Nietzsche is lit but philosophy tends to build on itself so I would honestly go sequentially. The Carthaginian empire is cool too and the Punic wars. Other than that, the existentialists like Camus and Sartre and sick imo but kinda edgy. Definitely would recommend reading The Stranger and The Plague. I like some psychology too like Carl Jung and Freud (even though he's a weirdo). Don't know too much more than that. Bronze Age Collapse is cool to learn about. Same with Caliphates and Mongols. Idk there's a lot but just start digging.

 
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The title was literally “cool hobbies that aren’t basic AF.” 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Skeet shooting 

The important thing is never to let oneself be guided by the opinion of one's contemporaries; to continue steadfastly on one's way without letting oneself be either defeated by failure or diverted by applause.
 

Expensive, frequently looked down upon because you end up getting lumped into "gun culture" even though you're not, and tough to find in NY/NJ because it takes up as much space as golf without the cachet.

I prefer an over & under to a side-by-side, but as long as you don't have a semi-auto you can be my friend.

The only difference between Asset Management and Investment Research is assets. I generally see somebody I know on TV on Bloomberg/CNBC etc. once or twice a week. This sounds cool, until I remind myself that I see somebody I know on ESPN five days a week.
 

While this can be a rabbit hole of expenses, racing cars. Don't need to buy something expensive like a Ferrari. Find an older Miata, S2000, or similarly cheap sports car and take them out to a local track and take it for a couple laps.

Racing is a much more niche sport, but if you eventually fall in love with it and end up at events with higher end cars, the networking opportunities are endless.

I'm biased because I love cars, but the people you meet in that hobby are incredibly diverse and occasionally uber successful. I've been everywhere from underground street racing meetups with 1,000 whp corvettes all the way up to getting toured around a multi-billionaire's garage with a one-off prototype of one of the most insane cars you'll ever see along with the rest of his rare/custom collection.

 

How much $$$ do you think you'd need to set aside a year to buy something raceworthy (e.g. older Miata), maintain it, and do, say, one track day a month? 

$10,000? Multiples more?

Sounds super interesting, never thought about buying a beater and hitting a track for a weekend.

 

I definitely can't give a solid number. It's not the cheapest hobby to have, so you really have to love it. But it also attracts a lot of wealth and isn't quite as niche as polo or sailing. 

My best advice is to research the types of cars you'd be interested in. My personal recommendations are the typical early - mid 2000s japanese sports cars. They were mass produced, are reliable, and relatively inexpensive for what you get. You'll still need to fit them with a roll cage and some safety equipment if you're getting really serious. 

But you can also just dive into car culture without the racing and still experience all the hobby has to offer. Like I said, I've been to a plethora of events and you just naturally run into people that will lead to more doors opening. 

3 examples I've had:

A friend of mine and I were getting a late night snack and a guy pulled up to us and invited us to a random meetup at like 1am (ended up at an underground car meet/street race gathering place. Met some cool people, retired cop with the loudest Camaro I've ever heard, and a guy who was more than happy to talk cars with two 17 year olds about his corvette putting 1500 out at the wheels.

I had seen an ultra rare car driving around my city occasionally and driving home one day, I saw it pulling into a mansion. Took a leap of faith and just went up to his door and rang the doorbell. When he answered, I immediately just asked "Was that you driving the (car brand)?" (It's an extremely rare car and tbh, not sure if anyone could find out his name just by saying it). He was so impressed I knew what it was that he asks "yeah, you wanna come see it?" This man takes me through his 2 garages, each with 2 story bays for storage. He has at least 12 cars, many of which ranged from very rare to one-offs. The collection alone was probably $15 million. Found out through talking that we had a couple of mutual friends and just talked cars for an hour. I was 18, he could have easily just closed the door in my face. 

Lastly, I was at a car meet. A guy pulls up in a brand new Ferrari that was only the 2nd in the United States at the time. Just pulls out a lawn chair, lights a cigarette, and chills next to it. I start talking to him after the crowd dies down. The guy struck oil in the 70s and was raking in so much cash that he hasn't worked in decades. He says he just buys and sells brand new exotics every 6 months, or if he gets bored with them.

 
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While exercise is very basic, powerlifting is a cool angle to it imo.

Not sure how you think exercising is basic. There is correct form for each exercise in the gym, and technique for running, swimming, and cycling is very important. Also proper technique in Muay Thai and BJJ is essential. None of these are basic. Nice try though. I think powerlifting (especially deadlifts) can be hazardous. 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

I’ve been doing triathlons for 5 years now and it’s great. You’re basically focusing on 3 different sports so you have to be super engaged. People think it’s too difficult to accomplish but there are distances that are short and you can complete them in just over an hour. 
 

Great for networking and meeting new people as well. 

 

Now we talking, this is an actual hobby. Can’t hold my laugh when I saw the college dude said he’s into philosophies but haven’t touched Camus.

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I’ve been doing triathlons for 5 years now and it’s great. You’re basically focusing on 3 different sports so you have to be super engaged. People think it’s too difficult to accomplish but there are distances that are short and you can complete them in just over an hour. 
 

Great for networking and meeting new people as well. 

Nice - what is your 70.3 PR?

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

I've never signed up for an Ironman, but my Olympic distance PR is 2:33. This year I'm running the NYC Marathon, hopefully after that I can start training for a 2025 70.3. I'll be shooting for a high 4 hours time. 

 

Can second this. Definitely not why I do them, but saying you race Triathlons somehow impresses average blokes far more than competing in other types of events. As you said, they have different distances too. So the training needed for something like a Sprint Tri is actually pretty accessible.

Triathlons will also get you into cycling, which is another good one on this list. When you get older running and swimming become pretty isolating hobbies (do NOT say join run clubs, that is reserved for 30 min 5kers who run every day and are somehow still overweight), but cycling is awesome/ Great networking, great way to enjoy the outdoors, great exercise, etc. Biggest drawback is cost - decent road bike, gear, etc. isn't cheap unless you build your own bike using used parts and you can spend about as much as you want.

IMO Tri training is a bunch of nice complimentary sports, but you still need a good strength training routine both just for general muscle development and physique. So it can get very time consuming if you are wanting to lift and do Tris, especially at Olympic or Iron Man distances.

 
  • Paintball (both fast-paced games like speedball / airball, as well as woodsball; preferably outdoors)
  • Snowboarding (get yourself an avalanche beacon and hit some snorkel-deep pow in the backcountry)
  • Backpacking (even if only for a long weekend; gets you out in the middle of nowhere without cell service, but loads of solitude and a lot of cool things that you otherwise wouldn't be able to check out)
 

Haha, very true. A few years ago I went snowboarding at a spot that has zero cell service (and spotty Wi-Fi in the gear shop), and when I informed my staffer of my upcoming trip, they didn't know how to process the few days of me being "off the grid", so just told me not to die. Was a good trip and didn't catch any flak afterwards, which was nice.

 

+2 skiing. I also read a ton of Sci-Fi. Typically involves very good writing and punches above its weight philosophically.

Big fan of EDM too. Shows are terribly fun.

But why be so judge-y with calling hobbies “basic”? Let people like what they like.

 

I generally think of myself as pretty vanilla but thought I'd comment. Age 24; Analyst 2 at LMM PE firm in Midwest/Southern metroplex that has 7-10m people (medium-large city but by no means an NYC, SF, LA)  

  1. Have played the piano since age 4 and used to compete in middle and high school, so continue to play on the side
    1. Teaching myself Rachmaninoff Piano Concerto 2 - already have movements 1 and 2 mostly learned after a year of practicing
  2. Collect whiskey - all kinds for the most part except rye which I tend to not like - big fan of Islay scotch (have Ardbeg and Lagavulin, like Laphroaig and Bruichladdich too - have been eyeing buying an Octomore but tough to justify coughing up $300 for a bottle), have also been into Tahwahkaro bourbon and all of Maker's Mark releases - have a few cask strengths that are great; have some High West, Weller Green label, Still Austin cask strength, etc. Have also been into Kavalan (Taiwanese whiskey) but has been pretty hard to find
    1. Cocktail making - have a pretty complete bottle/bar setup with a stocked fridge of mixers and fresh citrus juice (game changer on making a cocktail taste better)
    2. Collect wine - not even a dozen in my collection but have a few Silver Oaks, a few bottles that I bought in Sonoma on vacation last year, and a couple of other bottles from CA, France, Portugal, and Argentina 
  3. Life Time Fitness - not ripped by any means, but my local one closes at midnight so I can sometimes sneak in for an hour or two for a good walk/run and/or steam room/jacuzzi sesh before they close
  4. Stand Up Comedy - big fan of stand up comedy and will attend a show quarterly if anyone I like is in town
  5. Been trying to get more into Pickleball
  6. Try new restaurants/bars around town solo or with friends
  7. TV Shows - into comedy (South Park, Arrested Development, Tosh's new Youtube podcast, Kill Tony, etc), crime related drama/action (Narcos, Ozarks, Griselda, etc.) military related drama/action (SEAL Team) and and talent/music shows (think AGT, The Voice, American Idol)
  8. Gaming on phone in spare time - buddy of mine got me into PUBG which can be entertaining at times
  9. Poker - have played a few tournaments here and there and done alright - after subtracting out buy-in, positive lifetime earnings in the low 4 digits
 

Coin collecting - you can get some nice looking ancient coins from Constantine the Great for $30 or Alexander the Great silver sub-$100... or Byzantine/Greek/India/Central Asia/other Roman emperors in the $10-$15 range.

 

Skiing is awesome but for the love of god don’t do that telemark shit. Golf sucks if you’re not already good, but can be really fun with some practice and patience. Been trying to take back some personal time as of late and getting some cardio and fitness in which has really helped me with mood and general life enjoyment. Never been a big hiker but I hear nice things. I know some people like making stuff, could try getting on a lathe. Shooting shit is always fun too?

Be careful of stuff that will get you hurt, the downside gets a lot worse with age. Buddy of mine just broke his ankle playing soccer and it seems absolutely terrible.

 

Picking hobbies based on what "isn't basic" is the lamest thing I can imagine. 

Spend your free time doing what you genuinely enjoy, not what you think other people will think is cool or unique. 

Commercial Real Estate Developer
 

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