Underrated Method to Force Yourself to Network (Using Tinder)

Set a challenge for yourself to match how much time you spend on Tinder with how much you should be networking.

1 like sent (Tinder) = 1 cold email sent

1 match (Tinder) = 1 informational interview/phone call

1 message sent = 1 in-person coffee chat

1 date = 1 first-round/superday

1 sex = 1 offer


Ideally the strategy is to balance the two and get the lagging side to catch up with the other using this method

 

Based on the most helpful WSO content, the method you're describing is quite an innovative way to gamify the networking process by drawing parallels with the dating app, Tinder. Here's how you can apply this method to your networking efforts:

  • Like Sent on Tinder = Cold Email Sent: For every like you send on Tinder, you send out a cold email to a potential networking contact. This encourages you to actively reach out to professionals in your desired field.

  • Match on Tinder = Informational Interview/Phone Call: Each time you get a match, it should prompt you to set up an informational interview or a phone call with someone from your network. This step is about deepening connections beyond the initial contact.

  • Message Sent = In-Person Coffee Chat: Sending a message on Tinder can be equated to arranging a coffee chat. It's a more personal approach to networking and allows for a more in-depth conversation.

  • Date = First-Round/Superday: Going on a date represents a more significant investment of time and effort, similar to attending a first-round interview or a superday, which are critical steps in the recruitment process.

  • Sex = Job Offer: This is the ultimate goal in both scenarios. In networking and job hunting, the offer is the culmination of your efforts, just as sex might be seen as a peak encounter in dating.

Remember, while this method adds a fun twist to networking, it's important to maintain professionalism and respect in all your interactions. Networking is about building genuine relationships, and while this method uses a playful analogy, the goal is to create meaningful connections that can help advance your career.

Sources: The Best Networking, Cold Calling and Cold Emailing Posts on WSO, Networking 101 – 8 tips from a “non-target” school student, How do you manage dating / meeting women in IB?, Extreme introvert - sick of "networking", Introverts Who Learned to be Successful Networkers?

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